Sunday, October 17, 2010

I saw this on a friend's blog who is btw currently happily engaged.

Lose to Gain

Dr Teo says, "in a relationship, you always lose something and gain something."
I agree and I will say,
Lose temporary individualism to gain lifetime partnering
Lose the comfort to gain maturity
Lose the freedom to gain responsibility
Lose the familiar to gain transformation
Lose the "I win" to gain the "we win" :)

There is truly a lot to gain being in a relationship. I agree totally to what is written above. However, it is not just about doing the right thing. It is about the right person as well, ain't it? Sometimes life can be so predictable, i feel suffocated. I yearn for spontaneity! I crave for bouts of emotional rush! And Queen sings "i wanna break free!"